Relaxin

The day back to work after a long weekend is always a little adjustment. I had a fantastic weekend. I went to the beach alot, ate some good food, and went out on the town. Last night was my favorite though. If anybody happend to look at my facebook pics, you saw a shark! So we were sitting on the beach and there was this hardcore fisherman. Zack wanted to go to Sullivans Island to watch the fireworks, and we packed some food to eat before the fireworks started. So we were sitting there and zack was shortly drawn to the fishing lines. All of a sudden one of the lines went like zinggggggggg, and Zack sprinted over to the fisherman to see what was on the line. Sure enough this guy pulled in a shark. He was picking it up and trying to hold it to take a picture.. I was freaking. So the picture here is when the guy opened the sharks mouth to get the hook out. It was so fun!!! There is so much to do in Charleston. On to tonight which was one of those nights where I didn't want to work out, but Zack and I tried to do something that was fun but physical. Tennis was the answer, and I finished out my workout with a run around the track at Porter Gaud. Tomorrow I am taking  two of the cheerleaders to Camp Happy Days, which is a camp for children with cancer. I know it will be a great experience.

It's Saturday!

I am so glad it's the weekend! My favorite thing to do on saturday mornings is laying in bed and drinking a warm cup of coffee.... I have decided I am not going to try to make plans with anyone for the weekend because I hate bailing on them. Zack absolutely loves country music, and many of you that know me know that rap is my thing. Having dated zack for almost 4 years though, listening to country music now reminds me of good times with him soooooo that's what we are doing right now. Who knows what we will do the rest of the day..... Maybe the beach, or my new favorite thing brunch! Quote for the day, "live simply" have a great Saturday!

100 ways to UNCOMPLICATE YOUR LIFE

1. Don't try to read other people's minds

2. Get up 30 minutes earlier so that you don't rush/get a ticket while driving too fast/have to explain why   you're late/ get fired

3. Get 8 hours of sleep per night so that you think more clearly

4. Stick to your budget

5. Start saving and investing every week, no matter how little you can spare

6. Balance your checkbook
7. Don't try to be friends with everyone. Cultivate closer relationships with fewer people
8. Don't try to do business with everyone. Identify your target client and take very good care of them
9. Before getting angry, ask yourself if it will really matter in 20 years
10. Focus on being a good person, not on pleasing others
11. Stay home this Saturday, and finish off that nagging chore that you need to finish
12. Kiss and make up
13. Make a weekly menu, and shop for only those items at the market
14. Ask your grandparents the best way to uncomplicate life, and try it for a month
15. Fill up your gas tank when it's half full
16. Don't drink alcohol when you're tired, sad or mad
17. Pay your bills on time
18. Get an annual physical examination
19. Say "I love you" to your significant other and to your children. Studies show that more marriages last, and fewer kids use drugs, when these words are spoken every day
20. For just one day, imagine everyone's intentions are good because most people's are
21. Give away clothes that haven't been worn in two years
22. Throw out clothes that are in disrepair, and can't be mended
23. When you have a conflict with someone, talk it out. Don't let it turn into more than it is
24. Know what your priorities are in life, and act as if they are your priorities
25. Tell the truth
26. Don't cheat
27. Don't steal
28. If you're holding on to a ridiculous grudge, let it go
29. Clean your house weekly, so that it doesn't become to large a chore
30. Do your best at work or at school
31. Don't eat when you aren't hungry
32. Eat when you are hungry
33. Be yourself
34. Say no unapologetically
35. Cook simple meals
36. Don't try to keep up with the Joneses
37. Pay off your car before buying a new one
38. Organise your desk at the office
39. Change your smoke alarm batteries when the clocks spring forward, and again when they fall back
40. Organise your important paperwork
41. Take only half the clothes that you planned to take with you on holiday
42. Help your children with their homework every night, and have an open dialogue with their teachers
43. Have white sheets and white towels in children's rooms/bathrooms, because they're easily bleached
44. Spend your time with nice people
45. Avoid drama
46. Don't text or talk on the phone while driving
47. Turn off the television/video games/computer; they're time consumers
48. Don't engage in office politics
49. Refuse to gossip, or talk behind other people's backs
50. Do the dishes right after dinner
51. Never go to sleep angry
52. Ask nicely for what you need and want
53. Walk 10,000 steps per day to help your heart
54. Do 20 push-ups before speaking in anger
55. Leave work at work
56. Don't befriend anyone that isn't trustworthy
57. Don't envy others
58. Have your oil changed
59. Take vitamin C BEFORE you catch a cold
60. Don't work more than 8 hours per day
61. Weed your garden weekly
62. Wash your car weekly
63. Have a spring cleaning month every year, and do one room at a time
64. You don't need to be best friends with work colleagues, but build respectful partnerships
65. Don't drink and drive
66. Don't look for reasons to be angry or sad, look for reasons to be happy. You'll always be able to find plenty of each
67. Be friendly with your neighbors
68. Return emails and phone messages promptly
69. Schedule in free time
70. Don't procrastinate
71. Do what you say you'll do, when you say you'll do it
72. Be more flexible when you're able to be
73. Forgive and forget. End of story
74. Break the consumerism habit.. put a three month moratorium in place on buying anything not deemed a necessity
75. Start your diet on September 1, rather than January 1, so that you won't also have holiday pounds to lose
76. Take care of any health issues or concerns
77. Have your tires rotated
78. Have your breaks checked
79. Have your eyes checked
80. Don't let your imagination run away with you
81. Let go of perfection in others
82. Let go of perfection of yourself
83. Don't try to help those that refuse to help themselves
84. Find a way to reduce your commute to work
85. Have an alloted amount of worry time per day/week, that you strictly abide by
86. Drink more water
87. Eat more salmon
88. Don't make a mountain out of a molehill
89. Wear your hair in a classic, easy to care for style
90. Finish what you start
91. Wear classic clothes and shoes that never go out of style
92. Create a daily routine
93. Have a 1, 5, 10 and 20 year plan for your financial and life goals
94. Slow down

95. Eat out less often

96. When you ask your husband which outfit looks best, thank him for his answer and wear the one he liked rather than focusing on why he didn't like the other one

97. Allow your children to grow up

98. Clean out your garage, and donate anything that hasn't been used in the past year

99. Stretch every day

100. If a relationship is over, let it go

(Source: Live the Charmed Life)

What??

I don't understand what just happened?? I think I just created a blog in like 5 seconds. You know when you are about to start something new on the computer its like ok hereee it goes. This is about to take 2 hours of my life and it's probably not even going to work. I recently tried to start another blog somewhere else, but I couldn't figure out how to change my profile picture.... so I peaced out. Anways, I wanted to start this (process) I never said I would create a blog so it will be called a process, to keep people posted about what is going on in my life. I don't even care if anybody reads it, because as I write it is kind of therapeutic. I am also a terrible speller, so hopefully this will improve my spelling skills. So.... I would like to start by saying that I have been hired on by the College of Charleston as marketing/ticket sales/spirit coordinator. July will be a year!! AHHH I also hold a side job selling Arbonne. I wanted to improve on my selling skills, and I tried this product about two years ago and absolutely loved it. Consequently, I started selling the product. I want this "process" to be an idea pallet because I feel like ideas are constantly spinning around in my head, and it would help to get them out. Feel free to comment if you can or throw back ideas or other inspirational things!!